As a foreigner here, I would like to share and compare some of my experiences ever since I reached to Singapore.
The very first intercultural situation was my name. My full name is Ye Thu Win. My parents simply call me “son”; my relatives call me “Ye Thu”; most of my Burmese friends call me “Ye Thu Win”. In Myanmar, we do not have family name or first name system. Nobody has to change a name when getting married. A name is just a name. It is that simple. During the orientation camp in my hall, I was introduced my name, and everyone started calling me “Thu Win”. When somebody said “Thu Win” to me the first time, I did not feel like he was calling me, I had some sort of disconcerting feeing. I tried to introduce them as “Ye Thu Win” or “Ye Thu”. But it turned out that “Thu Win” is very easy to remember. Just need to remember “to win”. Since I did not have any preference, “Thu Win” became my given name.
The family name system may become a problem for us when we need fill in a form or buy a plane ticket. In a form, it states that underline your family name. Since I do not have a family name, I only write down my name. Then miscommunication starts to occur! If you buy a plane ticket online, you have to fill in as first name, last name and sometimes it turns out that my name on a plane ticket becomes “Thu Win Ye”. Nowadays it becomes less problem. But sometimes, the officer complains that the name on the passport is different from on the plane ticket. I really wish that there was a third option “No family name system” whenever there is a form.
One of my friends asked me that “How do we maintain family line since we do not have a family name?” How would you think if you were me? Let me know your opinion if you do not have a family name system?
Another common problem for me is acronym. In my opinion, Singaporeans love acronyms. They try to abbreviate most of the words! I have to ask back so many times what a particular acronym stands for. For example “OTOT”, do you know what does it stand for? There are some misunderstanding situations because of acronyms. And so are for sms language. I feel that relatively many acronyms make us less effective to communicate. On the other hand, one of my friends adopts an acronym to his name. His name is “Aung Khant”. Since it is difficult to call, he addresses himself as “a.k”. And people become easy to remember it. This is a good point of acronym.
Well, the post becomes longer than expected, so I stop here though I have some other issues to share.
Have a nice recess week to everyone and be happy, healthy and prosperous in new year!
Wooden Paddle from Central Portugal
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